As I was bloghopping and surfing the internet, finding new resources for my study and adding some new data for this Allah's made "cpu" of mine, I stumbled upon this marvelous tips on maintaining a healthy relationship and enhancing "mahabbah" and "mawaddah" between husband and wife.
I would like to share this with every wives, husbands (including mine, particularly) and every wives-to-be and husbands-to-be out there. Hopefully we can implement these suggestions to improve our relationships with our spouse. Just remember, a happy and loving couple is the prerequisite for a happy and successful family.
May Allah bless us all, with His bounty, love and care.
**20 Points to Love
by Shaykh Riad Ouarzazi
- Exchanging gifts, (It develops love between you two) it does not have to be materialistic.
- Spend time together. Just you and your wife. (Vise versa)
- “The look of love”. Just by looking at your wife you should know what she likes.
- Warm greetings.
- Praise the wife. Never compare her with someone else. Applies both ways
- Participate together in the household chorus. Your work is not only outside!!
- Kind words, they are Sadaqah.
- Spend time OUT together.
- Peaceful gatherings.
- Husband has to be balanced with the YES/NO.
- Show your interest, support, and care.
- Change your routine. Surprise her/him.
- Pamper her/him.
- Don’t hide your feelings. You should be able to talk to each other (Never in front of the children).
- Call her/him by her/him beautiful names
- Don’t talk about your problems before bed.
- Show THANKS…Jazakallahu Khair
- Apologize
- R-E-S-P-E-C-T
- Contemplate the Seerah.
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