Do I Worry Too Much?

Your Worry Factor is 73%

The amount you worry is definitely borderline unhealthy. Even when things are going well, you find yourself fixating on the negatives. Try to remember the times you've been able to let your worries go. If you can do that again, you'll be much happier!

Do You Worry Too Much?

Aura....

Your Aura is Blue

Spiritual and calm, you tend to live a quiet but enriching life. You are very giving of yourself. And it's hard for you to let go of relationships. The purpose of your life: showing love to other people Famous blues include: Angelina Jolie, the Dali Lama, Oprah Careers for you to try: Psychic, Peace Corps Volunteer, Counselor

What Color Is Your Aura?

Mengapa Wanita Istimewa.....

Mengapa WANITA sangat Istimewa.... ..

Mama dan Papa sedang menonton TV, seraya mama berkata. "..i letih
la..dah lewat ni, i nak tido lah...."
Mama pun pegi dapur nak tutup tingkap dapur, nanti masuk pulak
lipas...leceh pulak nanti..dah tu, ade pulak rice cooker dalam
sink..rendam lepas makan tadi..basuh jap...
susun pinggan kat rak, lap dapur..terpercik kena sambal masa masak
tadi...check air panas dalam flusk..takut habis pulak nanti malam anak
nak susu...memang dah kering pun flusk ni, jerang la air...sementara
tunggu air masak, nampak pulak bekas gula dah kosong....salin la
gula...check bubur untuk anak nak hantar ke taska esok..nasib baik ade
lagi...ishh. ..ni lauk bila ni, semalam...dah beku dah...basuh la
kejap....pegi yard, masukkan baju kotor dalam mesin basuh...penat dah
ni, besok je la basuh...sidai kaian lap je lah...
tik...bunyi air dah masak...salin air dalam flusk...ok settle...

baru teringat tak semayang lagi...on da way nak g bilik, papa tgk tv
lagi...nampak pulak beg anak untuk hantar ke taska...check. ..baju 2
pasang, towel...towel kecik utk selsama...calamine lotion untuk sapu
ruam...pampers
4 keping....alamak. .telupa pulak masukkan botol...basuh botol jap...ok
settle...

ternampak pulak beg g keje...emm.. besok nak pakai beg polo coklat lah,
asik2 pakai beg hitam ni je...salin jap barang2 g beg coklat...cek sume
6 poket beg, takut la tetinggal apa2..leceh pulak..selalunya barang yang
tertinggal tu la yang nak pakai nanti...hishhh sempit la beg ni...hangin
je...nak kena beli ni beg baru...rasenya 25 hb ni Sogo sale nih...mana
flyers tadi ek...ha ni die..ok, catit jap kat yellow sticker, nanti
lupa..ok settle...

Tetiba dengar suara papa..."..u buat apa lagi tu..tadi kata nak
tido.."...." ..yelah nak tido la ni..nak smayang jap..."

masuk toilet..buat apa2 yang patut...cuci muka dulu..2 jenis lak
tu...adoi..gosok gigi...smayang. ..pakai toner...pakai treatment
cream...nak lawa and maintain punya pasal lah ni...
nanti orang kata baru anak satu dah macam anak 4 pulak...huhuhuhu. ..

bukak almari...emmm. ..pakai baju hijau ni lah besok...gosok kejap..check
baju papa, baju papa pun kena gosok jugak ni...kat bilik belakang...
la, napa komputer ni tak tutup ni..gelas kopi pun ade lagi, dah bersemut
dah..ishhh ...g dapur, basuh, sambung gosok baju...gantung
elok2...kemaskan baju gantung2...masukkan seluar papa yang dah kotor
dalam tempat kotor...ok settle..

dgr suara papa lagi..."..i dah ngantuk ni.."..dalam pada nak masuk ke
bilik...owh. ..pokok aku dah nak mati ni ha..lupa dah 3 hari tak
siram...ok, siram jap...check jap pintu ni...sah tak kunci lagi...grill
pun tak tutup..ni kalau tak check ni, senang2 je mat indon masuk rompak
umah aku...bukak lampu luar..

ni mainan ni sepah2...masukkan la dalam bakul mainan budak ni...banyak
nya...sampai bawah meja makan pun ade...adoi.. ..ok dah ...

ok dah boleh baring...adoi sakitnya pinggang...cium si comel ni
kejap...selimutkan die...la..napa basah ni...emm, tukar la pempers
ni...tak bagus la brand ni, nanti nak tukar lain la...nanti g Sogo 25 hb
ni beli la skali...ok sayang tido k...kalau boleh jangan la bangun tgh
malam ni eh..tido sampai pagi k...gud nite..sweet dreams...

aaahh...sedapnya dapat baring...mana pulak lotion sapu kurus aku
nih...ha, ni dia...sambil sapu lotion kurus,,,setkan alarm...setkan
program kerja besok...pg kul 9.30 ade meeting..
ahh...boring. ..panas pulak lotion nih..dah la...emm..sedapnya lelapkan
mata...Ya Allah...terima kasih untuk rezekiMU hari ini,...mohon
keberkatan dari mu tuhan...papa pun bangun tutup tv..."...i dah ngantuk
sangat ni...nak tido lah...citer pun tak best malam ni, bola pun
takde..."... selang seminit ...dengar suara papa berkeruh...dah agak
dah....

So?....apa yang peliknya..??

Anda tahu kenapa wanita hidup lebih lama?...SEBAB ADE BANYAK KERJA NAK
KENA BUAT....tu yang tak boleh nak mati cepat tu...


Tak kira la wanita berkerjaya atau surirumah... setiap wanita adalah
istemewa dengan cara mereka sendiri...

Kalau lelaki mengakui kebenaran ini....hormat dah hargailah
mereka...untuk keperibadian dan kebolehan mereka untuk berdikari...

(anecdote ini saya dapat dpd suami saya melalui e-mel...it's true..beginilah routine kita kam Hawa tiap malam sebelum tidor...ada jer yg dibuat dan diuruskan sebelum betul2 dpt melelapkan mata....)

Tag again....very hard and lenghty one...

Ok. I've received this new tag from my sis. But I decided to copy it from Kin's blog. I thought maybe it would be more fun to compare our answers. Ist it ok iu?


1. Name one person who made you laugh last night?
Ayu - Haziq & faris lah...
Kin - Nabhan

Afafita- My hubby, we were in the car, on the way home from my mother in law's house. we were talking about mat rempit. kutuk2 mat rempit that we happened to meet on the road.

2. What were you doing at 0800?
Ayu- Siapkan makanan utk huby kije ngan anak2 breakfast..
Kin - 0800 bila ni? kalau pagi ni, tengah cek emel :).

Afafita-if you mean today, well...tengah buat hantaran for my sis in law's majlis tunang. but usually at 8 a.m, I'm sitting on the sofa alone, menikmati the tranquility of my life after kecoh2 peak hour from 7-8, rushing the kids to school.

3.What were you doing 30 minutes ago?
Ayu- chatting..ngan azraa..hihihi
Kin - buat burung kertas untuk Fawwaz :).
Afafita- Reading my blog and khairaummah site.

4. What happened to you in 2006?
Ayu - banyak.. yang besh..balik mesia.. p paris..p swiss....p italy & tempat2 len... sonot!!! hihihi..
Kin - Yang paling bermakna, Nabhan lahir ke dunia... :). pahtu, stat bercuti panjang ikut hasben dtg ireland ni ha...

Afafita- A lot of enjoyable events. Can't exactly remember. Dah lama sangatlah. why not asked about 2007 jer?

5. What was the last thing you said out loud?
Ayu - "Haziq!!!.. takmo baling bola atas mejaaaaaaaaaa......"
Kin - "Nabhan!!! jgn tutup piter ibuuuuu...." :).
Afafita- Bang, u boleh tolong bawak naik beg trolley grey kat tepi tangga when you come uptstairs? Don't forget tau! I dah naik nie...malas nak turun lagi....

6. How many beverages did you have today?
Ayu - 4 kali kot.. x ingat
Kin - 3-4 kali kot...
Afafita- bout 4 to 5...entahlah forgotlah.

7. What color is your hairbrush?
Ayu - takde hairbrush...(benda ape nie? huhuhu..)
Kin - cokelat.. :).

Afafita- emmm...brownlah

8.What was the last thing you paid for?
Ayu - sewa rumah..belanja kt pasaraya plus..
Kin - beli apple juice kat SPAR..

Afafita- Paid the toll LDP...(boring..tak habis2 toll)

9. Where were you last night?
Ayu - teratak yang bersepah2..hohoho..
Kin - rumah kak elly kat Ballyneety...mengeteh :).
Afafita- At my in-laws house...

10. What color is your front door?
Ayu - coklat2 gelap..
Kin - samala kaler pintu umah kita ayu..heeehehe..
Afafita- Mcm brown +red.....a mix of both colours.

11. Where do you keep your change?
Ayu - tabung.. seriusss...;p
Kin - atas meja kat bilik...
Afafita- In the small inner pocket in my handbag.

12. What's the weather like today?
Ayu - kejap mendung...kejap cerah.. malam..setiap masa sejukkkk...
Kin - ari ni tak nampak matahari, mendung jer...tp, tak hujan... snow tak de la plak... :).

Afafita- Very hot and sunny. Dahlah sibuk2 ada majlis...panasnya..

13. What's the best ice-cream flavor?
Ayu - Coklat + strawbery.. yummy...
kin - coklat...

Afafita- I usually go for chocolate and blueberry

14. What excites you?
Ayu - travelling...heheeee
Kin - window shopping... :).

Afafita- Window shopping and balik kampung to my mom's house...

15. Do you want to cut your hair?Ayu - nope..
Kin - sometimes..
Afafita- when I'm starting to feel uncomfortable and thinking of having a new image.

16. Are you over the age of 25?
Ayu - baru je terkeluar...tapi still maintain.....;p
Kin - yer... sedar diri dah tua, dah lebih suku abad :).

Afafita- serba salah nak answer. actually dah, but...mcm still feeling young...hehhe

17. Do you talk a lot?
Ayu - nope..kot.. tp kadang2 banyak.. kadang2 pemalu sampai tak reti nak cakap per.. seriuss..!!.
Kin - Mmmm....i would say... tak banyak cakap kot... kadang2 terlebih cakap gak..eehhehe..**tazkirah ; "diam itu lebih baik dari bercakap perkara sia2" :).

Afafita- Depends on whom I talk to, and who involves in the conversation. If I'm among my siblings, I'm not likely can be described as a talkative person compared to them. but kalau dgn si ayu nie...memanglah banyak cakap. The conclusion is, I will talk more among the less talkative person, and on the contrary.

18. Do you watch the O.C.?
Ayu - No.. (benda per nih>?)
Kin - pebenda O.C nih?
Afafita- Sorry no idea what is it.

19. Do you know anyone named Steven?
Ayu - Steven tak penah..seven or stephen kenal lah..haha...ha .. steve blue..haziq suka sgt2..
Kin - no

Afafita- Steven Segal tu boleh kira kawan i tak?

20. Do you make up your own words?
Ayu - mayb..no.. (tak paham solan..ehehe)
Kin - tak paham soalan gak...
Afafita- yes...of course bila bagi nama or petname for babies.

21. Are you a jealous person?
Ayu - tengok keadaan.. kadang2 jelous bangettt!!
Kin - mestilah jeles....tp bertempat la..
Afafita- the truth is...tak jealous sgt. Dalam bab nie, I tetiba jadi sensible and rational .....cos I believe in Allah's Will and takdir....

22. Name a friend whose name starts with the letter 'A'.
Ayu - ARIEF???..harharhar..Adibah...(kak adibah...;p).. kak azma eh.. azraa cork..akma sheffield...kak akma.. lagi.. Ayu??? namaku..ehehe.... ramai ah....
Kin - yg terlintas kat kepala sekarang.. AYU la!

Afafita- Akmaliza : my best friend (Ayu kira sedara, bukan kawan, so takleh masuk dlm list nie)

23. Name a friend whose name starts with the letter 'K'.
Ayu - K? em..sat2.. aa..emmm... ummm... Kamaliah? ehe.. K..em tak ramai... tak ingat...huhuhu
Kin - Khairiah...

Afafita- entahlah...nothing comes across my mind now.

24. Who's the first person on your received call list?
Ayu - Entahlah.. budak jerman yg duk praktikal kat Mesia ritu... Dia speaking jemen.. tapi aku x tahu nak jawap per...hahahaha siannn dier..
Kin - 'abang'...
Afafita- Abang KM (my husband)

25. What does the last text message you received say?
Ayu - hepi belated birthday to haziq from achik tina.. kt kampung..;)
Kin - "pagi ni anak3 makan apa? nasi lemak ke?" :).
Afafita- Waslm. le patutlah xde org jwb taq kat blog, bkn smlm kate rini ke?ehe xpe...semoga segalanya brjln dgn lancar..kami doakan dr jauh..selamat bersiap..eh.. (from ayu)

26. Do you chew on your straw?
Ayu - Nope..
Kin - no..

Afafita- of course not.

27. Do you have curly hair?
Ayu - Yes..
Kin - no
Afafita- heheh...mine is rebonding type.

28. Where's the next place you're going to?
Ayu - insya allah... UK & Ireland.... yahoo!!...
Kin - tak tau lg, blum masuk dalam kalendar secara rasmi .. :).

Afafita- Most probably during the March school holiday, nak jalan2 kat terengganu and kelate pulak..ngan mak and abah....naik abah's new nissan grand livina insyaAllah...hehehe

29. Who's the rudest person in your life?
Ayu - em.. adela..
Kin - tak ingat dah sape...

Afafita- ada one person. She is a Muslim convert, org Sweden. My ex roomate time study Masters dulu. I tak tahan bila dia kutuk2 azan subuh, and dia kata bising jer azan subuh nie. and tak tahan bila dia started to questioning the fundamental teachings of Islam, as if she was not a muslim. I had a fierce fight with her cos she didn't show her respect towards Islam, the religion she converted to.


30. What was the last thing you ate?
Ayu - Laksa..kek..strawbery..fillet fish.. banyak....
Kin - jeput udang (@cekodok utk sapa2 yg tak tau jeput tu apa yer... :p)
Afafita- kek chocolate yg dihadiahkan oleh pihak lelaki kat majlis tunang tadi petang.

31. Will you get married in the future?
Ayu - Mane leh kawin reramai... bersyukur dengan apa yang ada..
Kin -jawapan masa umur 20tahun; yes, of course! :). jawapan masa sekarang; dah kawen la.... :).
Afafita- dah 2 anak pun...irrelevant question.

32. What's the best movie you've seen in the past 2 weeks?
Ayu - Cite kelakar.. Upssss...
Kin - upin dan ipin :). (ni kira movie tak? hehhehe..)
Afafita- Ok, actually it's not a movie. It's a telemovie kat slot cerekarama @ TV3. Dono the title..but it's about appreciating your husband, and his way of showing off his love towards us. (memang terkenalah batang hidung that nite)

33. Is there anyone you like right now?
Ayu - ramai..kawan2 baru..
Kin - yes, there is...

Afafita- yeah...definitely


34. When was the last time you did the dishes?
Ayu - kul 5 ptg tadi..
Kin - kul 12pm tadi..
Afafita- last nite...cos this whole day kat in-law's house.

35. Are you currently depressed?
Ayu - yes
Kin - no
Afafita- Not really lah but sligthly. stress nak betulkan proposal, nak cari scope yg sesuai untuk my research nie, nak kemas bilik bebudak yg mcm titanic, nak kuruskan badan.....nak fikir nak mengundi ke time election nanti, nak kumpul duit nak gi jerman jumpa ayu..

36. Did you cry today?
Ayu- yes..
Kin - no

Afafita- I seldom cry...susah sgt nak tgk i nangis. (keras hati ker? taklah). time arwah nenek meninggal pun, I nangis sembunyi2.....

37. Why did you answer and post this?
Ayu - saje2.. takde kije..heh...
Kin - sebab Ayu yg suruh...hahhahhaa..

Afafita- Si ayu lah nie. Ikutkan hati tak kuasa....baik tidur or tengok tv...eheheh

38. Tag 3 people who would do this survey.

Afafita-takda ramai kawanlah...