Terjumpa semula gambar nie....waktu tu di Lumut, Perak around May 2007. Budak2 nie nampak mcm loving couple pulak...tapi mcm tulah diorang nie dulu2...sekarang...as they grow up...they starts to quarrel and fight with each other more frequent. I think it's a normal progress among the kids...sebab as they grow, they will start to feel that playing with siblings alone has become somewhat a bored routine in their lives. They will begin to find out that they need other friends, who can share the same interests, and...most importantly the same gender!
For instance...CHichi feels that playing play-do, or masak2 with her sister is no longer adventurous or exciting; he now looks for some new type of rough game, like "the SWAT team war against USA" (he always imagine he is in the special SWAT team, and the enemy is USA..hahah). Meanwhile, Afafita thought that she can't open her saloon and ask her bro to be her client, so that she can make some new hairstyles and put some make up on him. (usually, I'm her one and only client....but I really enjoy it. It's sooo relaxing sitting on the couch or lazy chair, while an amateur hairstylist do a "makeover" on me. I mean..totally makeover, that u can't even recognize urself afterwards....because u'll find urself has become the clone of ugly betty).
That's why, nowadays..at the age of 5 and 7..both of them needs other same gender friends. Chichi has several best friends at school and also in our neighbourhood, which he meets at the surau everyday. Afafita is quite obsessed with her "alia sofia, nur liyana, nabiha and nasuha"...of whom she finds a more enjoyable companionship.
Having said that...I can see that they still love each other very much. They often "sakitkan hati masing2", but not to the extend hitting each other or spanking or yelling. They still need each other, and there are times that they can really have true fun playing together at home...running around the house with laughters.
Siblings are like that. No matter how we hate or disagree with them...we still need and love them.
Air dicincang tak akan putus.
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